5 Ways to Convince Your Girl to Have a Threesome

There are a variety of reasons why men are interested in pursuing a threesome while they are in a relationship. For some, a threesome is one of those things that they want to check off of their bucket list while other’s simply want to turn things up a notch in the bedroom. Despite the initial reasoning behind the desire, most women are not 100% forthcoming with adding another woman sexually into their relationship. There are many women that perceive a threesome as giving their boyfriend permission to cheat or think a threesome demonstrates that they are not enough in the bedroom alone. There’s also the possibility that your girlfriend has never been with a woman before and it’s something that she has never considered. Instead of considering to cheat in order to fulfill your threesome fantasy, here are  5 Ways to Convince Your Girl to Have a Threesome:

Walk the Path of Sexual Exploration Together

As soon as you decide that you might be interested in incorporating another woman in the bedroom it’s important to package the idea as a means of sexual exploration together. If you’re in a relationship where the sex has gotten stale or you find yourself engaging in the same sexual experiences week by week then you can start off by introducing ways to revamp your sex life all together. Instead of saying, ” I want to have another woman in the bedroom”,take the initiative to visit a sex shop together and try new things as a couple. Make it your job to awake your girl’s sexuality and when the time is right she may be more receptive to listening to your fantasy…a threesome. Let it be noted that if you are an extremely sexual person and your partner is unwilling to try new things in the bedroom, that this could ultimately damage your sexual chemistry with one another.

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Open Communication

When it comes to a threesome, open communication with your partner is probably the most important thing. If talking about sex in your relationship is an uncomfortable topic, then your chance of having a threesome is slim to none. Be honest with the entire idea of a threesome when you bring it to your girl’s attention that it may be a fantasy you want to act on. By using open communication, you both will be able discuss how far you would allow a threesome to go and the limitations. You will be able to effectively discuss possible prospects and if you would be more comfortable pursuing a stranger. Remember to take all the sexual excitement out of the conversation and really discuss the logistics of how the threesome will occur and ground rules if necessary. Sure, talking about all the nasty stuff may be fun and exciting, however, it won’t  do you any good in the long run. You don’t want to finally get your threesome and your girlfriend ends up trying to kill the other woman in the room because she tried to kiss you…..or worse. Talk about everything and be patient.

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Show Her it Won’t Affect Your Relationship Afterwards

It is important not to feed her that, ” it will make our relationship stronger” bullshit, because in all honesty it might not.  This statement also applies to you as well, because you are without a doubt opening up Pandora’s Box when considering a threesome. Show her that you are willing to take necessary sexual precautions prior to the threesome and that you have at least thought about how a threesome will make you each feel afterwards.  After a threesome, some women struggle with their sexuality. This may be problematic if you have every intention to have a long term relationship with your girlfriend. There’s also the possibility of you enjoying sex with the other woman more than your girlfriend. How is that going to work?

Despite this, if you truly feel that you and your partner are strong enough to endure a threesome  then show her that you won’t start treating her differently afterwards. Demonstrate to her that there is already a high level of trust and loyalty present in the relationship.  Consider her feelings and emotions. This will prevent her from losing her shit at a later date. Do not throw out any ultimatums unless you want to create a bigger issue.

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Give Her Power

It is important that your girlfriend is completely included in all aspects of the threesome. This includes the selection process, where it occurs and how often. If  you both have made the decision to go through with a threesome, the experience now becomes a joint venture. Don’t be selfish.

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Be Open

Like I said previously, when opening the door of the unknown   be mindful of your girlfriend possibly wanting a threesome with another man. Though this idea may be out of the question for you, it is a completely accurate thing for a woman to consider after the idea has been presented to add another woman. In addition, be open to the idea that your girlfriend may want to test the waters with women or just overall be interested in trying more freaky sexual activities. If she has agreed to fulfill your threesome fantasy, be open to possibly fulfilling some of hers as well.

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It takes a certain type of woman to be comfortable and secure with having a threesome, especially when in a relationship. There is nothing wrong with a woman that wants her man completely to herself and will never be interested in sharing him even on one special occasion. In addition, there are some women that aren’t even interested in exploring their sexuality and that is also okay. Recognize that if you and your girlfriend are already fighting constantly about trust issues and there’s ongoing jealousy, a threesome will most likely make matters worse.  Do yourself a favor and decide whether or not having a threesome and expanding your sexuality is a deal breaker or if you can deal with your girlfriend telling you, “hell no” if it is against her values.

 

 

 

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