Are they cheating or are you just insecure?

We all know the most basic signs of a cheater; dwindling sex life, suspicious phone activity, and who could forget the late nights at the office but there’s two sides to every coin. What if I dared to debate your friends assumptions that your partner was a cheating scumbag and told you that you just might be the problem. Strike a nerve? I’m just playing devils advocate, so let’s discuss this before the hate mail starts rolling in. Continue reading “Are they cheating or are you just insecure?”

My Ex Hurt Me, How do I Move On? | #SnapConfessional

New snap confession in and hot off the press! So sit back, relax and enjoy as we try to figure out this thing, game, nightmare we call life. As you all may know we have a segment called #SnapConfessionals where people submit questions or life experiences to us that they may have never shared with anyone else and we offer our honest opinion as they remain anonymous. This week’s confession reads:┬á Continue reading “My Ex Hurt Me, How do I Move On? | #SnapConfessional”

He’s in a relationship, but I still want to sleep with him?

This is the perfect spot to insert the rolling eyes emoji because that’s exactly how I feel about this confession. As you all may know, we have a segment called Snap Confessionals where people submit questions to us and we give them our honest opinion, while they remain anonymous. This question came in hot off the press yesterday morning and I’m still feeling some type of way so how do I vent my frustrations? Blog about it to you all of course.

There’s only one of a few ways for this scenario to end so let’s discuss the train wreck that crashed into our dm’s yesterday. Continue reading “He’s in a relationship, but I still want to sleep with him?”

Blinded by Good Sex-6 Signs You’re Dickmitized

It’s no secret that good dick can be hard to come by. Many women spend months analyzing men’s feet, hands and even a simple dick picture to try and foreshadow whether or not the sex will actually be worth it. Let me first start off by saying that being dickmitized is nothing to be ashamed of and it’s a condition that happens quite often. Have you ever looked back on a relationship or a potential partner and asked yourself what exactly are they giving me┬ábesides good D? Do they have anything else to offer besides┬ágood D? ┬áCan they even form a simple sentence when they are in a conversation? These are just a couple of questions that should cross your mind.

Being dickmitized will give you a false sense of “love” and longing to make things work ┬áwith someone even though it may be a dead situation. Though amazing sex is pleasurable and can take your mind away from daily stresses; it is important to not fall into the category of being dickmitized. We all know that being dickmitized never ends in rainbows and sunshine; it usually ruins your life on various levels. ┬áHere are 6┬áSigns that you are Dickmitized┬á

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If a Man Pays for a Date…You Owe Him Sex?

In today’s dating culture, it is widely debated whether or not a man is expected to pay for the first date. Men are feeling used, after feelings of getting nothing in return for paying for the first date. To get a woman’s attention, is a man really obligated to cough up money on the first initial date in order to be seen as a potential “option” for the woman? If a man refuses to pay for the first date or simply would like to split the┬ábill ┬á, is he suddenly banished to the friend zone or listed as an unsaved number? The idea is that if a man takes the time to pay for your meal, [especially if he took you to an expensive┬árestaurant] then ┬ásex is expected at the end of the night. Let’s all keep it real, if a man spends $200 on a date, he’s expecting to get some ass at the end of the evening; not a simple kiss on the cheek and a “good night” text. The question is…do women owe this to men?┬á Continue reading “If a Man Pays for a Date…You Owe Him Sex?”

5 Reasons Why Your Ex Changes After a Breakup

Ever breakup with someone and all of sudden they’re doing EVERYTHING they said they would never do. You may have been in a relationship with someone who said they ┬ádidn’t drink┬áor party but, you catch them all over social media at the hottest clubs tweeting about how shit faced they are the next morning. Maybe you were with a girl who dressed┬ásuper conservative and after a breakup, all her┬ásocial media accounts resemble that of a budding Instagram model in the making; fit tea included. You might sit there and ponder why they couldn’t just be themselves during the entire relationship or why they didn’t feel comfortable enough to experience new things with you?┬á┬áHere are 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Changes After a Breakup:

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This is Why Your Sex Life Sucks

There’s something about sex that gets almost everyone’s panties in a bunch and now I know why, because almost everyone is having horrible sex. Yes you read that correctly and if you’ve clicked on this post you’re probably one of those silent sufferers. Well suffer no more because we’re about to turn your sex life all the way around.

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5 Ways Social Media Will Ruin Your Sex Life

So you just had some amazing sex with your partner. The kind that makes you want to┬ágo for a round 3┬á….or a round 5. For some of you, the sex is so good that you feel the urge to post about it on social media. You feel the need to brag about how horny you are on social media when your partner is out of town or just simply at work. ┬áI always wondered why people felt the need to put their sex life all over social media. Are people┬átrying to make others jealous? Do they think that we are all at home twiddling our thumbs, and not having sex too? ┬áI’m all for the freedom of sexual expression but, spilling all the details about your sex life on social media could cause some problems. Here are┬á5 Reasons Why Social Media Can Ruin Your Sex Life

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Are You a Loyal Woman or Just a Dumb Ass?

A lot of people┬áloosely throw the word┬á“loyalty” around as if┬á┬áit’s a quality that everyone possesses. In regards to a relationship, loyalty towards your partner is definitely one of the major keys that can either make or break it.┬á┬áConsistently showing┬áyour support and allegiance to your partner can help build a┬árelationship with longevity and trust. Despite this, many women are often loyal to the wrong men. They either get caught up in their emotions and lead with their heart or end up leading with pleasureful desires if they become “dickmitized”. ┬áBoth are equally unsatisfying.┬á┬áSo the question is, at what point does being a loyal woman become┬áa dumb ass decision?

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7 Rules to Live by in a Rebound Relationship

I’m not at all┬áagainst rebound relationships and I do believe that many people use them to get over the pain from their ex. Some people gain 100 lbs after an intense breakup, while some jump head first into a rebound situation in order to fulfill their sexual and emotional needs. When I look at Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston or think of when Kylie Jenner and PartyNextDoor had a brief hook up; I can’t even fix my face to have a side eye. So many people engage in rebound sex and relationships after they’ve had their heart broken; fame does not make them exempt. (Although, it’s still very uncertain as to whether Calvin Harris actually broke Taylor’s heart). The reality of it all, is that breakups┬ácan leave you feeling empty and alone. Sometimes people want that shoulder to cry on or just simply the intimacy that they no longer have with their ex. This is when people start to explore their options and turn to┬áall those unsaved numbers in their phone looking for a “rebound”. ┬á ┬á Here are 7 Keys to Take into a Rebound Relationship:

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